When we remember_______May 27, 2012


My father showed me the letter he wrote to his commanding officer asking to be deployed to the Gulf War. He did not get to go. Every time I saw my dad, it was a parade of remembering. His ability to spend a lot of time with anyone was limited.  It did not matter how … Continue reading

Open Letter to those that chose that moment,


Dear heart-breakers, It’s Valentine’s Day. This is to all those that have spent time in my head, my heart and I have had the honor of being in your presence. Your absence is noted. Your decision to leave this place in the manner you did has left and indelible ache. Every time another one hits that … Continue reading

92 _____________Jan 13, 2012


There is some catching up to do for me. I can tell a story in person….walk the room, people laugh, be myself–in public. The writing a story, whole other ball of wax. So, I start by inviting you to take this ride with me. The story starts about four months ago, though I will start … Continue reading